I’ll be the first to admit—when I started my business, I thought I had to do everything myself. Every email, every blog post, every customer inquiry, every little task that came across my plate. After all, wasn’t that what running your own business meant? Hustling hard, wearing all the hats, and proving you could handle it all?

Turns out, that mindset didn’t just slow me down—it exhausted me.

And here’s the truth I wish I had embraced sooner: Success doesn’t come from doing everything yourself. It comes from doing the things you’re best at—and letting go of the rest.

Why Your Zone of Genius Is Your Superpower

We all have that thing—that one skill or area where we shine. The thing that feels almost effortless, that lights us up, that makes time fly because we’re so in the zone. Maybe for you, it’s designing, coaching, writing, photography, or product creation. Whatever it is, that’s where your energy belongs.

Your zone of genius is where you do your best work, where your creativity thrives, and where your business will grow the fastest. But if you’re stuck in the weeds—managing emails, figuring out tech, or struggling with tasks that drain you—you’re robbing yourself of time and energy that could be spent on the work that truly moves your business forward.

And the thing is? Your ideal clients aren’t looking for someone who can do everything. They’re looking for someone who is amazing at what they do best.

The Cost of Doing It All

If you’ve ever felt completely overwhelmed by your to-do list, nod along with me:

• You spend hours on tasks that aren’t in your skill set, just trying to figure things out.
• You fall behind on the work you actually love because you’re too busy putting out fires.
• You feel like you’re constantly working, but your business isn’t growing the way you want it to.
• You’ve thought about hiring help but keep telling yourself, I can’t afford that yet. I should be able to handle this myself.

I’ve been there, too. I spent years believing that in order to be “successful,” I had to do everything in my business. That outsourcing was a luxury reserved for entrepreneurs who had “made it.” But I was wrong.

Delegation isn’t an expense—it’s an investment in your business growth.

How to Start Delegating (Without Feeling Overwhelmed)

Okay, so you’re nodding along, realizing you need to step back from certain tasks, but you have no idea where to start? Here’s how to make it happen without the stress.

1. Identify What Drains You

Take an honest look at your daily workload. What are the tasks that feel heavy? The ones that leave you exhausted, frustrated, or stuck in analysis paralysis? Maybe it’s bookkeeping, answering emails, editing videos, or designing graphics.

Write them all down. This list? That’s where you need support.

2. Make a “Keep vs. Delegate” List

Now, divide those tasks into two columns:

✔ Things only YOU can do (Your zone of genius—what you love and what directly brings in revenue)
✘ Things someone else could do just as well—or even better

If something is in the second column, it’s time to delegate.

3. Start Small—But Start Now

You don’t have to hire a full-time team overnight. Start with one thing. Maybe it’s hiring a virtual assistant for five hours a week to handle admin work. Maybe it’s outsourcing your Pinterest management or finding someone to edit your podcast episodes.

The goal is to free up your time so you can focus on growth.

4. Automate Where You Can

Not everything needs a human touch. Look for ways to streamline your business with tools and systems that take repetitive work off your plate. Things like:

• Scheduling tools (Set up social media posts or emails in advance)
• Email templates (Stop writing the same responses over and over)
• AI-powered content tools like Wordsmith (Let tech handle content creation while you focus on strategy)

Automation doesn’t replace personal connection, but it does free you up to show up in the ways that matter most.

5. Shift Your Mindset Around Investing in Help

I know what you might be thinking: I’ll start outsourcing when my business makes more money.

But the irony? Your business makes more money when you free up your time.

Every successful entrepreneur you admire—whether it’s a six-figure coach, a thriving photographer, or a booming e-commerce owner—has learned this lesson. They focus on what they do best, and they don’t try to do it all alone.

The Freedom of Letting Go

When I finally started delegating and outsourcing, something magical happened.

• I stopped feeling buried under my to-do list.
• I got to spend more time on the work I love (and less on the stuff I dreaded).
• My business actually started growing faster—because I wasn’t stretched thin.
• I felt more creative, more energized, and way less stressed.

And here’s what I want you to hear loud and clear: you don’t have to earn the right to delegate.

You don’t need to hit some magic revenue number before you deserve support. You don’t need to wait until you feel “ready.” You just need to make the decision to stop doing everything yourself—and trust that your business (and your well-being) will be better for it.

Your Next Step: Lean Into Your Strengths and Let Go of the Rest

If you’ve been carrying your business on your back, wearing all the hats, and feeling like you have to do it all—this is your permission slip to let go.

Lean into what you’re best at. Focus on the work that lights you up. And start getting support for the things that slow you down.

You don’t have to do it alone. And you’ll be amazed at how much your business (and your life) changes when you stop trying to.

You know what makes my day? Celebrating those small wins that feel like a big deal—like when I see an entrepreneur take one tiny step that completely changes their momentum. These little moments lead to massive change, and today, I want to remind you just how powerful those small wins truly are.

Big Success Is Built on Small Wins

We recently launched Version 2 of Wordsmith, and while it was an exciting milestone, I can’t help but look back on all the tiny moments that led us here. It’s easy to focus on the big victories—the major launches, the big revenue milestones, the growth. But the truth? It’s the small, daily steps that made those big wins possible.

There were so many moments where I felt like I was moving slowly. Where progress felt like it was taking forever. I run my business while being a stay-at-home mom to four amazing kids—two of whom we homeschool, and two who are still in the stage where they need me every minute of the day. Some days, I felt like I wasn’t getting enough done. Other days, I saw small sparks of progress that reminded me I was on the right path.

So today, I’m pausing to celebrate. This big milestone? It’s really a collection of all the tiny bits of work that stacked up over time. Every late-night brainstorming session, every email sent, every test run—all of it led to this moment.

Your Small Wins Matter (More Than You Think)

Maybe for you, it’s finally hitting ‘publish’ on that blog post you’ve been sitting on. Or sending an email to a potential client. Or setting up that sales page. These might seem like minor steps, but they add up. Each time you take action, even if it feels small, you’re building momentum toward something bigger.

A few ways to start stacking those wins:

• Write down one thing you accomplished today—even if it’s small.
• Recognize the effort behind your work, not just the end result.
• Celebrate progress, not just completion.

Why Celebrating Small Wins Helps You Stay Motivated

When we focus only on the big picture, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed. The finish line can seem so far away that we forget to acknowledge how far we’ve already come. But when you start celebrating small wins, something incredible happens:

1. You build momentum. Every small win is proof that you’re making progress, which keeps you moving forward.
2. You stay motivated. Seeing progress, even in tiny increments, fuels your motivation to keep going.
3. You shift your mindset. Instead of feeling like you’re always chasing success, you start seeing that you’re already succeeding.

Think about it—if you only allow yourself to celebrate when you hit the “big goal,” you’re robbing yourself of so many moments of joy and motivation along the way.

Small Wins Are the Foundation of Every Major Success Story

It’s easy to look at successful entrepreneurs and assume they had some big breakthrough moment that changed everything. But if you dig deeper, you’ll find that every success story is built on small, consistent actions.

The bestselling author didn’t write their book in one sitting—they wrote a little bit every day. The six-figure business owner didn’t build their empire overnight—they showed up consistently, refining their strategy as they went.

Every successful entrepreneur you admire? They started with small wins. And if they can do it, so can you.

How to Create a Habit of Celebrating Small Wins

If you’re ready to make this a habit, here’s how to start:

1. Keep a Daily Win Journal

Each day, write down one small win. It could be as simple as “sent an email to a new lead” or “wrote the first paragraph of my blog post.” Over time, you’ll see how much progress you’re making.

2. Share Your Wins With Others

There’s something powerful about saying, “Hey, I did this today!” Whether it’s a business friend, a mastermind group, or even your audience on social media—sharing your wins helps reinforce their importance. Something I would like to do is share these little wins more online. I usually just share them with my husband or sister.

3. Reward Yourself Along the Way

Set up mini-rewards for hitting small milestones. Maybe after completing a week of consistent work, you treat yourself to your favorite coffee. Maybe after finishing a project, you take an afternoon off. Rewards make progress feel fun and exciting.

4. Shift Your Focus From “Done” to “Progress”

Instead of only celebrating when something is finished, start acknowledging the steps it took to get there. You don’t have to wait for the big moment—celebrate the little moments along the way.

If you’re like me, you probably don’t stop often enough to reflect on how far you’ve come. We get caught up in what’s next—the next launch, the next goal, the next step. But today, I want you to do something different:

Pause. Breathe. Take a moment to tell yourself how proud you are of the work you’ve done.

Success isn’t just about the big moments; it’s about the tiny ones that got you there. Keep stacking those wins, and before you know it, you’ll be looking back at how far you’ve come, too.

If you’ve ever hesitated to launch a new product, delayed offering a service, or held back from putting yourself out there because it “wasn’t quite ready yet,” you’re not alone. Perfectionism in business is real, and it’s one of the biggest things holding so many entrepreneurs back. Whether it’s waiting for the perfect website, the flawless branding, or the ideal timing, perfection keeps so many from actually moving forward.

But here’s the truth: imperfect action will always outperform perfect ideas that never leave your notebook.

I used to believe that every business decision had to be meticulous. Every product launch had to be flawless. Every offer had to be built out completely before I could share it with the world. And you know what? I wasted so much time trying to make things perfect that I often missed the moment.

When I finally let go of perfection and focused on just launching, my business started growing faster than ever. I started learning in real time, tweaking as I went, and getting invaluable feedback from real customers—feedback I never would have gotten if I was still sitting on an “almost ready” idea.

So if you’ve been waiting for everything to be just right before taking the next step in your business, this is your permission slip to just launch it.

Why Imperfect Action Wins Every Time

1. Momentum Beats Perfection

Your business doesn’t need perfect—it needs momentum. Success comes from taking action, adjusting as you go, and learning from what actually works instead of what you think might work.

Some of the most successful businesses didn’t start with a perfectly polished offer—they started by getting something out into the world, then refining it based on real-world feedback.

You can’t improve what doesn’t exist.

2. Your Customers Don’t Need Perfect—They Need Solutions

Think about it—when was the last time you bought something because it was “perfect”? You likely made the purchase because it solved a problem or made your life easier.

Your ideal customer isn’t sitting around waiting for your business to have the perfect website, the perfect branding, or the most polished product. They are looking for solutions to their problems. The faster you launch, the sooner you can help them.

3. Speed Gives You an Advantage

While others are still tweaking and perfecting their offers, I already have my first version live, gathering real feedback, bringing in sales, and improving based on actual data. Speed is often the deciding factor in gaining traction.

I’ve always been a pro at launching things before they’re “ready.” My goal isn’t perfection—it’s to get my ideas out there so I can refine them with my customers and clients. The best businesses don’t start with perfection; they start with a first version that gets better over time.

4. Done is Better Than Perfect (And More Profitable)

I can’t tell you how many entrepreneurs I’ve met who have brilliant ideas but never act on them because they’re afraid they’re not “ready.”

Meanwhile, someone else with half the experience is out there launching, promoting, and making money simply because they’re willing to put themselves out there.

If you’re waiting for everything to be perfect, you’re missing out on sales, opportunities, and momentum. The most successful businesses are the ones that start before they’re ready.

How to Let Go of Perfectionism and Start Taking Action

If you’re struggling with perfectionism in your business, here’s how to shift your mindset and start showing up with confidence.

Step 1: Set a Deadline and Stick to It

Perfectionism thrives on endless tweaking. If you don’t set a deadline, you’ll always find another reason to delay. Set a firm launch date and commit to it.

Here’s the trick: Treat your launch like an appointment with a client. You wouldn’t cancel on them last minute because you needed “just one more tweak,” right? Hold yourself to that same standard.

And if you’re worried that things won’t be perfect? They won’t be—and that’s okay. The key is getting started and improving as you go. You can always refine later.

Step 2: Launch With a Minimum Viable Offer

Instead of waiting until everything is built out, start with a simple, functional version of your product or service. Your audience doesn’t need all the bells and whistles on day one; they need something that delivers value.

A minimum viable offer (MVO) helps you:

• Validate your idea without months (or years) of work.
• Get real customer feedback early on.
• Make adjustments based on what people actually want—not what you think they want.

Waiting for perfection before launching usually results in over-building, over-complicating, and over-spending. Keep it simple. Get it out there. Improve as you go.

Step 3: Test and Iterate

The most successful entrepreneurs don’t launch once and call it a day. They launch, test, tweak, and improve. This cycle is the secret to long-term success.

Here’s how you can apply this:

• Run a beta version of your offer and gather feedback.
• Look at real-world data—what’s working, and what’s not?
• Adjust your pricing, messaging, or delivery based on customer responses.

Remember, iteration is what turns “good” into “great.” But you can’t iterate on something that doesn’t exist. Get it out there first, then refine it.

Step 4: Trust the Process

The first version of anything will never be perfect. And that’s okay. Trust that you’ll learn, grow, and improve only by taking action.

Think of every big success story—you won’t find a single entrepreneur who got everything right from the start. What you will find is someone who was willing to start messy, learn quickly, and keep going.

Your business is no different.

If you’ve been stuck in the perfectionism cycle, let this be the sign you need to break free.

You don’t need to be perfect to be successful. You just need to be consistent, real, and willing to take action.

So, take a deep breath, trust yourself, and just launch it. Whether it’s a new product, a service, or a big idea—done will always be better than perfect.

If you’ve ever felt exhausted trying to keep up with social media trends just to stay visible, let me introduce you to one of the BEST platform for passive sales: Pinterest. Unlike Instagram, where your posts disappear into the void within a day (or even hours), Pinterest works differently.

It’s not a social platform like most everything thinks—it’s a search engine. That means the content you post today has the power to bring in sales weeks, months, even years down the line.

And that, my friend, is the kind of marketing I can get behind.

How Pinterest Works Differently From Social Media

Most social media platforms are designed to keep people engaged on the platform itself—endless scrolling, short-lived posts, and constantly shifting algorithms. Pinterest, on the other hand, is designed to send people off the platform to find what they’re looking for.

Think of it like this:

• Instagram = Content disappears fast. You have to keep posting to stay relevant.
• Pinterest = Content builds over time. One pin can send traffic to your site for years.

Why Pinterest Is Perfect for Passive Sales

Here’s the magic of Pinterest—it connects buyers to your business at the exact moment they’re looking for a solution.

Think about how people use Pinterest. They’re searching for inspiration, ideas, and things to buy. Whether it’s a Lightroom preset, an online course, or a physical product, they’re already in the mindset to take action.

This is why Pinterest drives some of the highest-converting traffic compared to other platforms. People aren’t just scrolling mindlessly; they’re searching with intent—and when your product pops up as the solution? That’s when the magic happens.

How I Use Pinterest to Make Passive Sales

Step 1: Optimize Your Website for Pinterest Traffic

Before you even start pinning, make sure your website is ready to convert visitors into customers.

• Create clear landing pages for your products, services, or freebies.
• Have an email opt-in to capture leads from Pinterest traffic.
• Use strong CTAs (calls to action) that guide visitors toward making a purchase.

Step 2: Create Pins That Drive Clicks

Pinterest is a visual platform, so your pins need to be eye-catching and click-worthy.

Here’s what works for me:

• Bold, easy-to-read text overlays.
• Text heavy pins (My audience loves these kinds of pins!)
• High-quality images that stand out in the feed.
• Vertical (2:3 ratio) graphics for better visibility.
• Clear descriptions that include relevant keywords.

At the bottom of this blog post, you’ll see four Pinterest pins I designed for this article. I built this into my site using Showit, so I don’t have to waste time designing new graphics from scratch. I simply screenshot them and upload them to Pinterest!

Step 3: Pin Consistently

Unlike social media, where you have to post multiple times a day to stay relevant, Pinterest rewards consistency over time.

→ Pin 5-10 times per day (mixing your own content with curated content).
→ Work Pinterest into your workflow. With every article I write, it gets pinned to Pinterest. Since I publish multiple articles a week, I am constantly creating new pins.
→ Keep your boards organized and niche-specific. Content that’s not relevant to my work, I put into secret boards.

Step 4: Run Pinterest Ads for Passive Sales

This is where things get exciting. If you really want to scale your passive income, Pinterest ads are a game-changer.

I’ve personally scaled my business using Pinterest ads without relying on social media. My best-performing ads have been running for over two years with no changes—and they’re still bringing in daily sales.

If you’re curious about how to set up Pinterest ads the right way, I teach my exact system in my Pinterest Ad Strategy Course. It’s a 90-minute training that walks you through how to set up high-converting ads, target the right audience, and get sales on autopilot.

Check it out here: Pinterest Ad Strategy Course

Final Thoughts: Why Pinterest Should Be Part of Your Marketing Strategy

If you’re tired of constantly having to show up, create, and post on social media just to stay visible, Pinterest is your answer.

It’s a long-term marketing strategy that helps you attract customers without the burnout. Once your pins are out there, they keep working for you—bringing in traffic, leads, and passive sales without the constant effort.

Using Pinterest organically is a great start to get some traction, but if you’re ready to speed up the process even faster, my Pinterest Ad Strategy Course is here to show you exactly how to do it. I break down the entire system step-by-step so you can start running profitable ads with confidence.

February was an interesting month. Compared to January, which felt really steady and predictable, February came with its own set of challenges and triumphs. My goal for the month was to consistently run four miles while also focusing on increasing my speed. Some days, I felt strong—like I could push myself to a faster pace and even sprinkle in some sprint training. Other days, I felt exhausted, like my body was resisting every step, and finishing four miles felt nearly impossible.

One of the biggest mindset shifts I had this month was thinking more about marathon training. I started experimenting with a new running approach that seemed to work well for me: running 0.90 of a mile at a faster pace and then walking the last 0.10 to slow my heart rate before repeating the cycle. This gave me the confidence to push myself while still maintaining some level of control over my endurance. I found that I could sustain speeds between 6.5 and 7.5 MPH (about an 8:00-9:00 minute mile pace) for those bursts. It felt challenging but doable, and it gave me hope that I might be able to apply a similar strategy for longer runs.

But then, the last week of February hit, and my energy levels completely tanked. It was one of those weeks where everything felt harder—not just running, but balancing work, motherhood, and life in general.

Most of the time, I feel like I have a decent amount of energy, but I definitely had a few days where I was straight-up burned out. And I want to share that here because it’s easy to scroll through posts online and assume that everyone else has this magical, perfectly balanced life where everything just flows seamlessly. I promise mine is not that way. With four kids—three of them boys, one of them a younger (and more stubborn) version of myself—my hands are full. Really, really full.

So, instead of forcing myself to push through at the same speed, I decided to shift gears and embrace a slower pace. And to my surprise, it actually felt amazing. Running at 5 MPH (about a 12:00-minute mile pace) was something I could sustain without breathing heavily or sending my heart rate soaring. It felt natural, like something I could actually maintain over a long period of time.

That realization led me to an unexpected milestone.

On the last Friday of the month, I set out for a long run with one goal: to take it slow and steady and see how far I could go without stopping. And, to my surprise, I made it 7.5 miles—the farthest I’ve ever run.

There were a few hiccups along the way, like the treadmill automatically stopping my workout at the 5-mile mark (cue minor frustration), but I restarted, sipped some water, and kept going. My original goal was to hit 9 miles, and I honestly think I could have done it, but then the childcare staff at the gym called me because one of my little ones refused to clean up the toy blocks. So, I wrapped up at 7.5 miles and called it a win. Jumped in the pool to cool off and finished relaxing for a few min in the sauna.

And it really was a win. Not just because of the number, but because of how I felt. The run felt good. It felt sustainable. And for the first time, I felt like running a long distance wasn’t just something I was working toward—it was something I was capable of doing.

Looking back, I think all the faster running I did earlier in the month helped build my strength and endurance in ways I didn’t realize at the time. Those speed sessions—where I pushed myself past my comfort zone—made my slower-paced runs feel so much easier in comparison. And that’s something I’ll carry with me into March: the understanding that balance is everything. Some days will be about speed. Some days will be about endurance. Some days will just be about showing up, even when I don’t feel like it.

I’m still a long way from 26.2 miles, but this was a big step in the right direction.

Marketing. Just the word alone can feel overwhelming, right? There’s always something new, always another trend to chase, another algorithm to figure out. And if you’re anything like me, you’ve probably wondered, Do I really need to do all of this?

Here’s the truth: It’s not about doing everything—it’s about doing the right things. And often, the right things aren’t flashy. They aren’t loud. They aren’t even the things you see plastered all over social media. The magic? It’s in the small, quiet actions that compound over time and create real, lasting results in your business.

The Power of Small, Quiet Actions

We’ve been conditioned to think that success comes from going big, working harder, hustling longer. But here’s what I’ve learned after over a decade in business: Sustainable growth comes from consistency, not chaos. It comes from intentional, quiet steps taken over time—steps that don’t burn you out but instead build a foundation for long-term success.

Think about some of the most powerful marketing strategies: word-of-mouth, strong client relationships, a clear brand message. These aren’t things you “launch” in one day. They grow from small, intentional actions—like sending a heartfelt email to your audience, responding personally to a DM, or simply showing up with valuable content week after week.

The question is: What small, quiet actions are you taking today that will lead to big results tomorrow?

Small Actions That Have a Big Impact

Now, let’s get practical. What are the small but mighty moves you can make in your marketing? Here are a few that I swear by:

1. Writing Personalized Emails

You don’t need a massive email list to make an impact. What you do need is connection. Instead of just blasting out promotional emails, try writing like you’re talking to a friend. Share a personal story, offer something valuable, and invite conversation. That one email could be the thing that turns a reader into a loyal customer.

Recently, I added a Sunday series to my newsletter workflow where I check in on Sunday mornings, sharing some personal thoughts with my list. No sales, no pitch—just a cozy way to show up, connect, and offer something real. It’s my way of building relationships that go beyond business, and the responses have been incredible. Sometimes, the smallest, most personal actions create the biggest impact.

2. Engaging in One-on-One Conversations

In a world of automation and bots, personal connection is a marketing superpower. Reply to DMs. Send voice messages. Comment thoughtfully on someone’s post. These small actions make people feel seen, and that builds trust—the foundation of any great brand.

3. Creating Consistent, Valuable Content

Instead of trying to be everywhere all at once, focus on one platform and show up consistently. Maybe it’s a weekly blog, a short-form video series, or a podcast. When you commit to creating value in a way that feels natural to you, you attract the right audience without feeling like you’re constantly chasing visibility.

This year, I made it my focus to consistently blog, and it has transformed my content creation process. Having a structured space to share thoughts, insights, and experiences has made everything else—social media posts, emails, and marketing strategies—so much easier and more focused. Instead of scrambling for content ideas, I now have a steady flow of topics to pull from, reinforcing my brand message and deepening my connection with my audience.

4. Following Up With Past Clients or Customers

Most people focus on attracting new customers, but your best marketing strategy? Serving the people who have already said “yes” to you. A simple follow-up email to a past client can lead to a repeat booking, a referral, or a testimonial that brings in even more clients.

5. Refining Your Message

If you feel like your marketing isn’t landing, it’s not about doing more—it’s about getting clearer. Take time to refine your message so that when someone finds you, they instantly know what you do, who you help, and why it matters. Small tweaks in your messaging can lead to big shifts in how people perceive and connect with your brand.

The Mindset Shift: Less Hustle, More Impact

Here’s the thing: Marketing isn’t about volume—it’s about impact. You don’t have to be the loudest voice in the room to make an impression. You don’t need to do all the things, post all the time, or be everywhere at once. What you do need is to focus on the actions that truly move the needle.

So, instead of asking, What else should I be doing? try asking:

• What small action can I take today that will build long-term trust?
• How can I connect with one person in a meaningful way?
• What message do I need to clarify to make my marketing more effective?

Marketing isn’t about the rush—it’s about the ripple effect. Small, quiet actions create movements.

Now, I want to hear from you: What’s one small, quiet action you can take today that will set your marketing in motion? Maybe it’s sending an email, replying to a comment, or brainstorming a content series that excites you. Whatever it is, start there.

Because the real secret to big marketing results? It’s not the loudest strategy. It’s the most consistent one.

There’s a voice inside my head. Maybe you’ve heard it too. It whispers when I sit down to work, when I put myself out there, when I take on something new. Who do you think you are? It doesn’t come in screaming, doesn’t demand to be heard. Instead, it lingers—persistent, nagging, a quiet undercurrent beneath even my biggest moments. It asks if I’m capable, if I’m worthy, if I’m allowed to take up space in the world I’m building.

For a long time, I believed that voice. I thought success belonged to other people—the ones who had it all figured out, who stayed in their lane, who didn’t dare to want too much. And I wanted too much. I wanted to be a stay-at-home mom and a business owner. I wanted to homeschool my kids and build something of my own. I wanted the freedom to pivot, to create, to explore all the pieces of who I am. And for years, I fought the idea that I was asking for more than I deserved.

The Lie We’ve Been Told

From the moment we start dreaming, the world has opinions. We’re told to pick one thing. To stay focused. To specialize, niche down, master a single craft. To choose between motherhood and ambition, between creativity and structure, between dreaming and doing.

I was told, over and over again, that I had to choose. That doing too much would make me look scattered. That I’d never be taken seriously if I split my attention. That I couldn’t have the life I wanted because it simply wasn’t practical. And for a while, I let those voices win. I doubted myself. I played small. I kept parts of me hidden, convinced that if I let them all exist at once, I would be too much for people.

But here’s what I know now: That voice—the one that says we can’t do it all—is lying to us.

Owning Every Piece of Who I Am

My business is an extension of me. Every piece of it. From the Lightroom presets I’ve designed for photographers to the content creation tools I’ve built for entrepreneurs to the ad strategies I’ve taught to small business owners—every single thing I create holds a part of me. And the truth is, I couldn’t imagine doing just one thing for the rest of my life. The thought of choosing only one piece of me to bring to the world feels suffocating.

I thrive in the space between structure and spontaneity, between business and home life, between creativity and strategy. I love switching gears, embracing my multi-passionate heart, and giving myself permission to do what feels right rather than what’s expected.

But getting here took work. It required shifting my mindset from who do you think you are to do all of this? to I deserve to create a life that feels right for me.

Letting Go of Guilt

I had to let go of the guilt that came with loving my work. The guilt of wanting to create something for myself. The guilt of enjoying my kids and my career. The guilt of chasing big dreams while also holding space for my family.

I had to remind myself that it’s okay to want a full life. That I don’t have to shrink to make other people comfortable. That just because the world tells us to choose doesn’t mean we have to listen.

So, I made a choice. To embrace the both. To be an active, present mom and an ambitious, creative entrepreneur. To build sofa forts in the morning and write email sequences in the afternoon. To homeschool my kids and build a thriving business. To squeeze work into the pockets of my day and trust that even when it feels chaotic, I am exactly where I’m supposed to be.

What I Want You to Know

We live in a world where people will always tell you what you can’t do. That your dreams are too big, that your ambitions are too scattered, that your goals are unrealistic. That voice in your head—the one asking who do you think you are?—it’s only echoing what you’ve been told. But here’s what I want you to hear instead:

You are allowed to want what you want. You are allowed to build the life that feels right for you. You are allowed to be passionate, multi-passionate, ambitious, and deeply present all at once.

You do not need to choose between motherhood and entrepreneurship. Between passion and practicality. Between creativity and stability. You are allowed to have it all, in the way that makes sense for you.

So the next time that voice creeps in, telling you you’re not good enough, not capable enough, not allowed to do what you dream of—quiet it. Replace it with the truth: You are already enough. You always have been, even on the days when you doubt it, even in the moments when you question your path. Your worth isn’t tied to how much you accomplish or how seamlessly you juggle it all. It exists simply because you do. And because you are here, you owe it to yourself to go after the life you dream of. Not the life others expect of you, not the life that feels safest, but the one that makes you excited to wake up every morning. The one that fills your soul with purpose and possibility.

Imagine waking up tomorrow morning with a sense of clarity and ease. Your content strategy for the week is already laid out for you—this week, next week, six months from now, even two years into the future. A real content strategy that you can follow, designed to take the stress out of planning and allow you to focus on what truly matters.

You know exactly what needs to be created, and instead of feeling overwhelmed, you dive right in, crafting each piece with intention. Your social media posts, your blog, your emails—strategically crafted, beautifully written, and ready to go. No more staring at a blank screen, no more scrambling at the last minute. Just seamless, stress-free content that feels perfectly you and connects with your audience in all the right ways.

Sounds like a dream, doesn’t it? But what if I told you this could be your reality with a tool like Wordsmith?

For so many entrepreneurs, content creation is a struggle. It’s that never-ending task that always seems to take way longer than it should. The pressure to constantly come up with fresh ideas, craft compelling captions, and show up consistently can be exhausting. And let’s not even start on the frustration of pouring your heart into a post only to hear crickets in response.

I get it—because I’ve been there too. But here’s the good news: It doesn’t have to be this way.

What If Content Creation Was the Easiest Part of Running Your Business?

Imagine logging into a dashboard that already knows your brand voice, your style, and the heart behind your business. A tool that delivers fresh, customized content ideas tailored to your business, complete with captions, blog posts, and newseltters—all designed to engage your audience and build real connections.

No more second-guessing what to post. No more wasting hours trying to write the perfect caption. No more feeling like you have to reinvent the wheel every time you create content.

This Is Exactly Why I Created Wordsmith

I’ve always been passionate about writing, but I struggled when it came to short-form social media content. I built Wordsmith to connect and tie together social media, blog content, and newsletters—creating a tool that brings strategy and creativity together seamlessly. I took my strategic planning mindset and paired it with my love for writing, developing a powerhouse tool designed to help entrepreneurs like you. Wordsmith takes the guesswork out of showing up online and replaces it with clarity, confidence, and ease.

Get Personalized Content – Wordsmith adapts to your business, so your content feels like you wrote it yourself—without spending hours behind the screen. It learns your brand voice, your style, and the nuances of your messaging so that everything you publish feels aligned and authentic. This isn’t cookie-cutter content—it’s your content, made effortless.

Never Wonder What to Post Again – The frustration of staring at a blank screen? Gone. Wordsmith provides you with fresh, relevant, and engaging ideas at the click of a button, so you always have something valuable to share. Whether you need a social post, an email, or a blog topic, it’s there waiting for you.

Write in Minutes, Not Hours – Imagine getting a full blog post, a week’s worth of Instagram captions, or a polished email sequence done in minutes. That’s what Wordsmith does. It streamlines the content creation process so you can focus on the parts of your business that truly need your attention.

Stay Consistent, Stress-Free – We all know consistency is key, but actually sticking to a content plan can be exhausting (especially when you don’t know what to talk about). Wordsmith ensures that your content is planned, structured, and aligned with your brand’s goals, so you can maintain consistency without the stress.

Feels Like Your Favorite Co-Worker – As entrepreneurs, we wear all the hats and get little help in running our businesses. Wordsmith is like the most amazing co-worker—one that understands what you do, supports you in creating, and makes sure your content reflects you. It’s the reliable content partner you didn’t know you needed, helping you to finally show up with confidence and ease.

Crafting Content That Sounds Like You

One of the biggest things we focused on perfecting? Making sure your content doesn’t sound like a robot, but actually sounds like you.

Because here’s the truth—your brand is unique. Your voice matters. And whether you’re writing for social media, your blog, or a newsletter, you should be able to create content that feels authentic to who you are.

That’s why Wordsmith’s writing styles were designed to help you mimic your personal content creation process. As someone who loves to write, I built Wordsmith to follow my own workflow—one that helps capture your personality, your message, and your passion, all while cutting the time it takes to create content in half.

Content Creation That Feels Effortless

Imagine waking up every day knowing that your content is already working for you. That instead of stressing about what to post, you can focus on what truly matters—serving your clients, growing your business, and creating the life you’ve been dreaming of.

Picture yourself confidently hitting “publish” on a post that sparks real engagement. Imagine your inbox filling up with responses to an email that truly resonates. Think about how freeing it would feel to know that your content strategy isn’t just working—it’s thriving.

That’s the kind of transformation Wordsmith makes possible. It’s not just about creating content—it’s about creating impact. It’s about reclaiming your time. It’s about showing up in a way that feels authentic, strategic, and totally effortless.

You don’t have to keep struggling with content creation. You don’t have to spend another week, another month, or another year stuck in the cycle of inconsistency and overwhelm.

This is your chance to change the way you create content forever.

And the best part? You can try it for free.

Sign up for Wordsmith today and experience effortless content creation for yourself.

Your future business—the one where content creation is simple, stress-free, and actually fun—is waiting. And it starts with this one simple step.

For years, I let social media dictate my content strategy. I would wake up, figure out what to post that day, and spend way too much time scrolling, getting sidetracked by what everyone else was doing. My focus was on what would perform well on social media—not what would actually move my business forward.

Then, I took a full year off social media (you can read about that here), and suddenly, everything changed. Without the constant pressure to create for Instagram, I was able to take a step back and ask myself: What kind of content actually supports my business? What type of content attracts my ideal customers? What helps me grow in a way that feels aligned and sustainable? What kind of content will feel authentic to who I am?

And that’s when I realized: I had my content strategy completely backwards.

The Mistake: Letting Social Media Lead the Way

For the longest time, I believed that social media was the foundation of my marketing. If I could just create the right posts, go viral, or keep up with trends, then everything else would fall into place.

But here’s the problem: social media is fleeting. Posts disappear in hours. Engagement doesn’t always lead to conversions. And constantly trying to figure out “what works” on social media meant I was chasing algorithms instead of building a real strategy.

Social media isn’t bad—but when it becomes the primary driver of your content strategy, it leads to burnout, frustration, and a whole lot of wasted time. I spent years stuck in this cycle, constantly tweaking my content to fit what I thought the algorithm wanted, instead of focusing on the long-term success of my business.

The truth? I was creating content for an audience that wasn’t even mine.

Every time I posted, I hoped for engagement, for validation, for a sign that I was “doing it right.” But I wasn’t building a sustainable marketing strategy—I was just feeding a system that rewarded short-term visibility over long-term growth. And today, I see so many business owners falling into the same trap, feeling beyond frustrated with their marketing strategy.

The Shift: Prioritizing SEO, My Blog, and My Email List

When I stepped away from social media, I had to rethink everything. Without it, where was my audience coming from? How was I reaching new customers?

That’s when I started focusing on:

SEO – Writing blog posts optimized for search so people could find me long after I published.
My Newsletter – Growing and nurturing my email list because it’s the only platform I own.
Long-Form Content – Creating high-value articles, guides, and resources that answer the questions my ideal customers are already searching for.
Creating Pinterest Pins – Turning my long-form content into searchable, evergreen pins because Pinterest is a search engine, not a social media platform.

Instead of creating for social media, I started creating for my business. I built my content strategy around what actually drives traffic, generates leads, and converts into sales.

And the best part? My content started working for me—even when I wasn’t online.

A blog post I wrote months ago continues to bring in new leads every single day. An email I sent weeks ago still generates sales. I stopped chasing likes and started building a content system that worked on autopilot. Am I going viral on social media? No. But is my content strategy growing my business like never before? Oh yes.

The Benefits of Flipping Your Content Strategy

When I made this shift, I saw immediate changes—not just in my business, but in my mindset.

1. Less Stress, More Freedom – No more feeling like I had to post daily to stay relevant. Instead, I could focus on creating meaningful content that lasted longer than 24 hours.
2. Higher Quality Leads – The people finding me through my blog and email list were already interested in what I offered—not just casual scrollers.
3. Consistent Growth – Unlike social media, where reach is unpredictable, my blog and SEO efforts provided steady traffic and new subscribers every month.

Instead of creating endless posts hoping for engagement, I was creating with purpose—and it made all the difference.

Why Social Media Should Be the Last Step (Not the First)

Now, social media is just a small part of my overall marketing plan. It’s a way to repurpose and share content—not the thing that drives my entire business.

Too often, entrepreneurs start with social media and try to build a business around it. But that’s backward.

Here’s what works better:

Start with your core content – Blog posts, podcast episodes, YouTube videos—something that has longevity and value.

Use SEO to drive traffic – Make sure your content is optimized so new people can find you through search.

Build your email list – Because an email list is the only audience you own and control.

Then, repurpose for social media – Take pieces of your content and share them on Instagram, Pinterest, and beyond.

This way, your content is working for you long before it ever gets shared on social media.

Ready to Flip Your Content Strategy?

A Step-by-Step Plan to Build Sustainable Growth

If you’ve been feeling stuck in the endless loop of social media, this is your reminder: it’s time to flip your content strategy.

For too long, social media has been the starting point for content creation. But what if I told you that flipping your strategy—putting long-form, evergreen content first—could be the key to attracting the right customers, growing your business sustainably, and breaking free from the burnout cycle?

Let’s walk through exactly how you can do this, step by step.

Step 1: Get Clear on Your Content Goals

Before you dive into creating content, take a step back and ask yourself:

• What do I want my content to do for my business?
• Am I creating content just to stay visible, or to drive actual leads and sales?
• What are the pain points my ideal customer has, and how can I solve them?

The key takeaway? Your content should work for your business, not just for social media engagement. If your strategy isn’t leading to real business growth, it’s time to rethink it.

Step 2: Brainstorm Content That Attracts Your Ideal Customer

Instead of asking, “What should I post today?”, start asking, “What does my ideal customer need help with?”

Grab a notebook, open a doc, or start a mind map. Jot down every single topic that could educate, inspire, or solve a problem for your audience.

Step 3: Create Long-Form Content That Works for You

Now that you have content ideas, it’s time to build a strong foundation with long-form, evergreen content that will drive leads for months (or even years).

Your best content should live where it can be easily found and revisited—on your blog, YouTube, or podcast.

For each topic from your brainstorming session, choose one of these formats:

A blog post (great for SEO, discoverability, and repurposing later)
A YouTube video (high engagement and long shelf life)
A podcast episode (perfect for in-depth conversations and audience connection)

• Then, optimize it for SEO by making sure:
• It answers a question people are searching for
• It includes relevant keywords naturally throughout
• It has a strong headline that grabs attention
• It provides real value (not just surface-level advice)

Step 4: Build an Email List That Converts

Your email list is the most valuable asset in your business because you own it (unlike social media followers).

Step 5: Use Pinterest to Drive Traffic (Without the Social Media Burnout)

Unlike Instagram and TikTok, Pinterest isn’t about being “active” all the time—it’s a search engine that brings visitors to your content on autopilot.

To get started:

✔ Create 5-10 Pinterest Pins for every blog post, freebie, or product page
✔ Use keyword-rich titles and descriptions (Pinterest works like Google!)
✔ Pin consistently (Tailwind is a great tool for automating this)
✔ Track analytics to see which pins bring the most traffic

Pinterest is one of the best ways to flip your content strategy because it ensures your content keeps working for you long after you hit publish.

Step 6: Repurpose for Social Media (Instead of Creating from Scratch)

Now that you have SEO-friendly, evergreen content, it’s time to repurpose it for social media without starting from scratch.

The key? Social media should be the LAST STEP—not the first.

When you start with long-form content and then repurpose it, you get more visibility with less effort.

When you start putting your business first (instead of social media), everything shifts. You’ll feel more in control of your marketing, less stressed about posting daily, and more connected to the people who actually need what you offer.

And trust me—that is a game-changer.

Meet Sarah. She loved running her business—she was passionate about her work and adored her clients. But when it came to showing up online to attract new clients? That was another story.

Sarah often found herself staring at a blinking cursor, feeling the pressure to come up with something clever or engaging to post.

The truth? It was easier not to say anything at all.

She didn’t know what to share, how to sound authentic, or how to actually attract the kinds of clients she dreamed of working with. And honestly? I get it. Sarah was amazing at connecting with people face-to-face—her clients loved her, and her passion for what she did was so clear when you met her in person. But when it came to the online stuff, she felt completely lost. Social media, her newsletter, her blog—they all kind of fell by the wayside. Not because she didn’t care, but because every time she sat down to write, she felt stuck.

Taking the First Step

One day, a friend mentioned Wordsmith, raving about how it had completely transformed their content strategy. Sarah figured, Why not? She signed up, not really expecting much, but hopeful it might help her get a handle on her content and give her a ilttle direction.

When Sarah logged in for the first time, she was blown away. Not only did she see captions that were ready to be posted, but for the first time, she could visualize what a fully planned month of content would look like. As a big-picture thinker, I’ve always believed in creating a long-term strategy for business success. When it comes to my business, I thrive on thinking ahead. I love mapping out where I want to go and creating a plan to get there.

That mindset is something I built right into Wordsmith. And it’s something a lot of my clients love, especially those who aren’t naturally drawn to thinking so far ahead.

For people like Sarah, who preferred to focus on the day-to-day, having that year-long overview was a revelation. She could finally see how all the small pieces came together to form a cohesive strategy. It wasn’t just about posting for the sake of posting anymore; it was about sharing with intention and working toward a larger goal. She could see how all the pieces fit together and how each post and email worked toward a bigger goal. Suddenly, content creation felt purposeful and exciting instead of overwhelming.

The Moment It All Clicked

Suddenly, it made so much sense. The idea of posting on the go or waiting for inspiration to strike? That was left in the past. For Sarah, having a clear plan—with captions that felt professional yet authentic—was a game-changer.

She could see how everything connected: how her social media posts could lead to more inquiries, how her emails could nurture relationships, and how a consistent online presence could establish her as a go-to expert in her field. For the first time, she wasn’t just winging it—she had an actual strategy.

Sarah started using Wordsmith’s captions and templates right away, customizing them to reflect her voice. The best part? She didn’t have to do it alone. Wordsmith’s tools made it easy to plug in her ideas, tweak the language, and make everything feel like her.

Here’s what Sarah had to say:

“Before Wordsmith, I felt so overwhelmed by the idea of content creation. I knew I needed to show up online, but I had no idea what to say or how to say it. Wordsmith changed everything. The captions and content plans gave me structure and confidence, and for the first time, I actually enjoyed creating content. My business feels more aligned, and I’m connecting with the right clients—the ones I’ve always wanted to work with.”

Why Wordsmith Works

Sarah’s story isn’t unique—and that’s exactly why Wordsmith was created. It’s not about reinventing the wheel or spending hours crafting the perfect caption. It’s about giving business owners the tools they need to share their message authentically and strategically.

With Wordsmith, you don’t have to start from scratch. You get access to:

• Professionally written captions that sound authentic and approachable.
• Monthly content calendars to help you plan with purpose.
• A bird’s-eye view of an entire year of content strategy.

And the best part? It all feels doable—because it is.

Ready to Write YOUR Success Story?

If you’ve ever felt like Sarah—overwhelmed by content creation and unsure where to start—I want you to know that there’s a better way. Wordsmith was designed to help entrepreneurs like you show up with confidence, connect with your audience, and grow your business without the stress.

Imagine what it would feel like to have a clear plan for your content, captions that reflect your voice, and a strategy that actually works. Imagine knowing that every post, email, or story you share is building towards something bigger.

That’s the kind of transformation Wordsmith can help you achieve.

So, are you ready to write your success story? Let’s make it happen.

Explore Wordsmith and start your journey today: www.modernmarket.co/wordsmith

There’s a moment every entrepreneur faces—that sinking feeling when someone leaves a negative comment, sends a hurtful message, or unsubscribes from your email list. It’s hard not to take it personally. After all, you pour your heart and soul into your business, and when someone doesn’t resonate with it, it can feel like a rejection of who you are.

But here’s the truth: Your business isn’t for everyone. And that’s not just okay—it’s a good thing.

The sooner you realize that there will be people who don’t need, want, or even like what you create, the sooner you can stop wasting your time on the wrong audience. Instead, you can focus your energy on serving the people who love what you do and can’t wait to hear from you.

Let’s explore why trying to please everyone is a trap and how embracing the mindset of “Let them” can transform your business.

Why You Can’t (and Shouldn’t) Please Everyone

Think about it—there are nearly 8 billion people in the world. The odds of you creating a product, service, or business that’s the perfect fit for everyone? Zero.

No matter how incredible your offer is, there will always be people who don’t need it, don’t want it, or simply don’t like it. And that’s not a reflection of your worth or the quality of your work. It’s just life.

We all have different tastes, preferences, and needs. Some people will love what you do. Others won’t. The key is to focus on the ones who do.

Because here’s the thing: For every person who unfollows, unsubscribes, or leaves a negative comment, there are dozens more who are excited about what you have to offer. The ones who are quietly cheering you on, clicking your links, and waiting for your next launch.

They’re the people you started your business for.

The Power of “Let Them”

When you start to feel discouraged by criticism or rejection, try adopting this simple mindset: Let them.

• Someone doesn’t like your business? Let them.
• They don’t agree with your pricing? Let them.
• They have something negative to say? Let them.

This mindset is something author Mel Robbins talks about in her book Let Them Theory (which I highly recommend). She shares how embracing the idea of “Let them” can be a powerful way to protect your energy and focus on what truly matters.

Mel reminds us that we can’t control how others perceive us or react to what we do. What we can control is how we show up and who we choose to give our attention to. So, when someone criticizes your work or doesn’t see your vision—let them. When someone doesn’t support your business or understand your passion—let them.

It’s not your job to convince everyone to love what you do. Your job is to show up for the people who already do—the ones who see your value, resonate with your message, and are excited to be part of your community.

The “Let them” mindset isn’t about dismissing feedback or ignoring opportunities to improve. It’s about recognizing that you can’t be everything to everyone, and that’s perfectly okay.

Why It’s Time to Stop Wasting Time on the Wrong Audience

One of the biggest mistakes entrepreneurs make is spending too much time trying to win over people who aren’t a good fit. Maybe it’s the stranger who leaves a nasty comment on social media or the potential client who ghosts you after asking for your pricing.

It’s tempting to chase after them, to explain yourself, to try to prove your worth. But that energy? It’s better spent elsewhere.

Instead of focusing on the naysayers, put your time and energy into:

• Nurturing your loyal customers.
• Creating content that speaks to your ideal audience.
• Building relationships with the people who do get it.

When you let go of the need to please everyone, you create space to grow a business that truly reflects who you are and what you stand for.

The Freedom of Embracing Your True Audience

When you stop trying to appeal to everyone, something magical happens: You start to attract the right people.

These are the customers who see your value. The ones who share your values. The ones who tell their friends about you, leave glowing reviews, and stick with you through the ups and downs.

Your true audience doesn’t need convincing. They’re already sold on who you are and what you do. And when you focus on them, your business starts to feel lighter, more aligned, and more fulfilling.

What Happens When You Embrace “Let Them”

Letting go of the need to please everyone doesn’t mean you won’t face criticism or rejection. You will. But when you adopt the “Let them” mindset, you stop letting those moments derail you.

Here’s what happens when you embrace this approach:

• You feel more confident in your decisions.
• You spend less time worrying about negative feedback.
• You create stronger connections with your ideal audience.
• You have more energy to focus on what truly matters.

And most importantly, you start to build a business that feels authentic and aligned with your values.

Your Business Isn’t for Everyone (And That’s the Point)

You didn’t start your business to please the world. You started it because you have something special to share. You started it because you knew there were people out there who needed exactly what you have to offer.

So, the next time you get a negative comment or feel the sting of rejection, remind yourself of this:

For every one person who doesn’t get it, there are a dozen more who do.

Stop wasting time trying to convince the wrong people. Instead, pour your heart into serving the ones who already see your value.

Because your business isn’t for everyone—and that’s a very good thing.

Did I just Google “how long is a marathon”? Yes. Yes, I did. Because somehow, I’ve decided that running a marathon (that’s 26.2 miles for those like me who didn’t know) in Honolulu sounds like a great idea, even for someone who’s only ever managed to run five miles—on a really good day.

Let’s be clear: I’m not a runner. The only running I do regularly involves chasing my two little ones around the house or racing to the kitchen before my coffee gets cold. But here I am, putting this wild goal out into the universe. I’m planning to run a marathon, and I can’t believe I’m saying that.

So, why this goal? Why now? Let me tell ya.

Choosing to Do Something Just for Me

As a mom of four, most of my attention goes toward raising and homeschooling my kids. I run my business from home, which gives me a ton of flexibility, but it also means that my personal time is practically non-existent. My days are a juggling act of lesson plans, family time, snack requests, and laundry—so much laundry.

Somewhere along the way, I stopped making time to do things just for me. And if you’re a parent, you probably know exactly what I mean. It’s easy to get lost in the needs of everyone else and forget that we deserve a little slice of our own time and energy, too. Back in my early business days, when I was working as a photographer, most of my weekends required me to travel to new locations for weddings and sessions. Although it was technically work, it often felt like a fun weekend getaway—a chance to do something on my own and explore new places. I didn’t realize at the time how important that solo time was for me.

Running a marathon is my way of claiming that space for myself. It’s a commitment to me. It’s a reminder that I’m allowed to set big goals that have nothing to do with being a mom or running a business.

And honestly? It feels empowering to choose something this big and audacious.

My Love for Unrealistic Goals

I have this weird obsession with setting really unrealistic goals and then figuring out how to make them happen. Running a business has always felt a lot like that—setting big dreams, making a plan, and just trusting that I’ll figure it out along the way.

Running a marathon feels exactly the same.

Right now, I can’t run more than five miles without feeling like my lungs might give out. But I’m not worried about where I am today—I’m focused on where I could be a few months from now. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that big goals push us in the right direction, even if they feel impossible at first.

How many times do we stop ourselves from going after something because we think, “I could never do that”? What if we flipped the narrative and thought, “I can’t do that yet but I’m willing to try”?

That’s the mindset I’m taking into this marathon journey. I may not be able to run 26.2 miles today, but I’m showing up for future me—the one who will cross that finish line in Honolulu.

I’m Not a Runner (But I’m Trying Anyway)

Let’s be real—running is hard. At the moment, running three miles feels like a challenge. I’m not someone who naturally loves to run, and the idea of running more than five miles? I honestly can’t imagine it.

When I say, “I’m not a runner,” I mean it. I’m the mom who runs after her kids, not someone who laces up their sneakers every morning for a quick jog.

But the beauty of setting a goal like running a marathon is that it forces you to grow into the kind of person who can do it. I’m not a runner yet, but by the time December rolls around, I hope I will be.

Accountability and Consistency

One of the main reasons I wanted to commit to this marathon is to motivate myself to become more consistent in working out.

I’ve always struggled with sticking to a workout routine. I’d have good weeks where I’d show up consistently, followed by weeks where I’d fall off the wagon completely. I needed a reason to show up—something to hold me accountable.

Signing up for a marathon gives me that reason. If I don’t put in the work, the only person I’m letting down is myself. And having to run a marathon is for sure going to be a terrible experience. There’s no hiding from that.

Consistency is key when it comes to training, and I hope this goal helps me stay accountable even on the days when I don’t feel like showing up. Because let’s be honest—there are going to be plenty of those days.

Why Honolulu? Why NOT Honolulu Hawaii?!

If you’ve been following me for a while, you know I have a deep love for Hawaii. I’ve lived in both Maui and Oahu, and those islands will always hold a special place in my heart.

When I started thinking about running a marathon, I knew I wanted to choose one that felt meaningful. The Honolulu Marathon felt like the perfect fit—a way to return to a place I love, while rewarding myself at the end of the year for sticking with my training plan. Plus, since it’s in December it gives me the most amount of time to train.

Plus, if you’re going to run 26.2 miles, you might as well do it in paradise, right?

Getting Personal

This space on my blog is typically filled with business tips and marketing strategies, but I hope to share more of my health journey here, too. It feels a little vulnerable to show up in this way, but I want to be real about the ups and downs of this experience. Life isn’t just about business goals—it’s about personal ones, too.

I’m equal parts excited and terrified. There’s a voice in my head saying, “You’re crazy for even trying,” but there’s a louder voice reminding me that I’ve done hard things before—and I can do this, too.

So, here’s to running a marathon, showing up for myself, and doing things that feel impossible.